I believe in both feminism and misandry because not only do I think women need to be empowered and have an equal footing in society, but I think men have a lot of privileges that NO ONE should have, not even oppressed groups. Being able to sexually assault people and not be held accountable or punished, being glorified for taking advantage of others, using your power and privilege to hurt and mock those that lack power to defend themselves, [cont]
[cont] being treated like you’re immune to criticism and faults, etc. Saying women should have equality potentially implies women should have the right to do all those things too. No human should have the right to those privileges, and to me, misandry is the reduction of some of those harmful and dangerous privileges for men while feminism is helping women be empowered to have a higher value in society. Misandry means holding men accountable for the past and current atrocities they have commited. —
More thoughts on Misandry. Feel free to share yours, too.
We would like to center the discussion around sex work as that’s what we’re here for.
I was raped by four men in one evening. I got drunk and tried to say no. What did my predators do? They told me to drink more. They shoved a bottle in my face and told me to keep drinking. Drink till I was drunk enough to fuck them. I blacked out. They urinated on me. They assaulted me. They shoved foreign objects in my body, anally and vaginally. They took videos. I was just 16 years old. The video was sent around my entire school, and I was bullied every single day of my senior year of high school. I lost all of my friends. I was physically and verbally abused by peers and people I once called friends. Someone tried to set me on fire in the hallway during passing period. Nobody sympathized with me. Nobody cared about the fact that because of these events, I was trying to kill myself every single day. I was cutting myself, making myself puke, showering upwards of fifteen times a day because I felt filthy. I was scratching and peeling the skin off of my body because I was dirty. I looked at myself like I deserved what I got. The world saw me as dirty, so I began to see myself that way, too. My rapists were praised by my peers for their deed. I never had a voice. When I first learned about the Steubenville incident going to trial, I was overjoyed. Because Jane Doe’s story was my story, and if anyone deserved justice, it was her. She would get the justice I never got. She would change the tide of the rape culture movement. Despite the horrific events that occurred, I knew that the justice served would help ease her pain. But she didn’t get justice, and now she has to witness this news coverage, favoring and sympathizing with her attackers. Pain is not an accurate word to describe what she is feeling right now. Pain is the simplest term you could use. As a rape victim and an aspiring journalist, I am disgusted with the way this case was reported on. Jane Doe’s rapists deserve their suffering in prison. They deserve more. They do not deserve to be sympathized with. They made their stupid decision, and they deserve whatever consequences come their way. If you don’t want to be labeled as a rapist, don’t fucking rape. — Anonymous comment left on the CNN petition demanding they apologize for sympathizing with the Steubenville rapists (via theworldmaybebroken)
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This one really really upset me. :(
:( Me too. I’ve never heard of that before.
Read through for some powerful stories about abuse, domestic violence, and the impact of reproductive coercion.
This is another less talked about aspect as to how Planned Parenthood is simply *invaluable.* It serves as another resource for those in abusive relationships.
tw: abuse, rape, domestic violence
A few weeks ago my mom stapled pages of a story in one of her women’s magazines together and handed it to me. She gave it to me pretty much with the tag lines “for your feminist blog” and “something new to consider.” Indeed it was; she knows me well.
The story is titled “I was forced to be pregnant.” With a title like that, reading it was actually not on the top of my to read list. I thought it was about women not exercising their right to choice. I was very, very wrong on that one.
Have you ever heard of Reproductive coercion? It is a term that was quite recently coined by the advocates against domestic violence to describe a certain type of abuse some women face. It occurs when a man pressures their partner to have kids and/or impregnates them against their will. Reproductive coercion comes in three different types:
Some examples of sexist logic:
- Traditional gender roles are inherent to our nature. That’s why we have to promote these roles constantly.
- Men have superior self-control. That’s why men can’t control themselves when they see a woman wearing a mini-skirt.
- Real men are independent and they need women to take care of them.
- Women are weak in all possible ways and that’s why they’ve made men submit to them, created strict censorship, and feminists control the media.
Rapists, Beware: Detroit Prosecutor IDs 21 Attackers in ‘Rape Kit’ Investigation
“Kym Worthy has identified 21 serial rapists so far in a sweeping investigation that could have national implications. Abigail Pesta reports on the crusade to eliminate the rape-kit backlog.
Twenty-one serial rapists have been identified in a massive investigation led by Detroit prosecutor Kym Worthy—and her manhunt has only just begun.”
My mistrust [of men] is not, as one might expect, primarily a result of the violent acts done on my body, nor the vicious humiliations done to my dignity. It is, instead, born of the multitude of mundane betrayals that mark my every relationship with a man—the casual rape joke, the use of a female slur, the careless demonization of the feminine in everyday conversation, the accusations of overreaction, the eye rolling and exasperated sighs in response to polite requests to please not use misogynist epithets in my presence. — im reblogging this again because its especially pertinent right now (via sendificator)
(Source: shakesville.com, via sendificator)
im setting myself on fire goodbye
Another sexist gnome posts sexist crap and claims he’s not sexist? I’m sorry
(though not really)but I had to make a response ;)
(I’m not being rude, that’s just how mirror of sexism works <3 )
How to Meet Shy Girls -
Just about the shittiest person I’ve seen around in a while. The ignorance level here is absolutely astounding.
He’s hiding any negative comments on his posts, which is why you will not find any of those around.
(Reblogging to my main blog because this is so severely not okay.)
I honestly don’t have words to describe how utterly angry this blog and its creator makes me. Please spread this around so everyone knows that people who think like this ACTUALLY EXIST.
If not for thousands of sexist assholes like this I would think it’s a joke by some troll who makes fun of all the sexist shit on the internet.
Unfortunately, he’s not the first, he’s not the last.
”You will have to be the hunter rather than the hunted, as nature intended you to be.”
Excuse me, did you talk to the nature? Did it tell you so?
”shy girls will often have far fewer sexual partners than outgoing girls”
If so, then why the hell would she want you?
”shy girls are typically modest and ladylike”
Oh, what do you know about women, Mr. Sexist Jerk. You’re just writing about what you want women to be, not what we really are.
”shy girls are not overly opinionated, rude, loud-mouthed or foul-mouthed”
Never foul-mouthed? Haha. I know shy girls who taught me some expressions that an experienced user of foul language like me didn’t even know of.
”shy girls will bring out the protective instinct in you”
Yeah, when most of your advices include intimidating her.
“You want a girlfriend who acts like a girl and makes you feel strong and powerful.”
So he doesn’t feel strong and powerful on his own. Something’s telling me that a girl he’s describing wouldn’t want to hang out with someone like this.
”Shy girls do not tend to have sky high over-confidence and are more down to earth and downright easier to be around.”
Are you sure of it?
”Shy girls tend tо dress modestly”
He’s a big fan of Twilight and 50 Shades, isn’t he? Seems like all his knowledge comes from it.
”It makes me feel good when a girl relies on me for protection and security.”
Yeah, first make her feel the danger and then protect her from it. Genius.
”You may luck out and find an ugly duckling, a girl that previously had acne, wore goofy glasses and braces, was fat, or was sickly as a child.”
To abuse her further, amiright? Tell her she’s worthless without you and no one else likes her?
”You need to be the aggressor”
If you want to protect her, protect her from yourself. Don’t even approach her.
”A shy girls natural response is to giggle when she is uncomfortable. The presence of a handsome, well dressed and well muscled man is enough to make her uncomfortable.”
Of course, she would feel uncomfortable and want you to leave her alone as fast as possible.
And here are the news for you: not every girl finds “well muscled men” attractive.
I don’t find such men attractive, for instance
”You don’t need to be extremely witty to make a shy girl laugh, she will laugh at any silly thing you say (if she likes you).”
She will laugh because you embarrass yourself. That’s also the reason why she may feel uncomfortable.
”You don’t need to keep your hands to yourself and “respect her boundaries”. You need to be the aggressor, like a gentleman caveman.”
Buy yourself a brain
”When you finally do get in you’ll have the pleasure of saying, into her ear, “you’re my property now“.”
Do you have any documents?Stop. Citing. Fifty. Shades.
Logic. Had he ever heard of that word? I doubt it. In fact, it seems like none of the sexist idiots have ever heard of it.